What Women Want
It can sometimes be difficult to change the way that other people perceive you. However, there are certain things that you can do while driving that will add to your attractiveness. With that in mind, here are 10 traits women love to see in drivers, and 10 they hate.
1. Consideration For Others
A courteous driver is one who drives safely and courteously. They let other drivers merge in and out of traffic, let people go first when they need to, and use their blinkers to communicate with other drivers. A courteous driver is a patient driver, a respectful driver, and a driver who makes our roads safer.
2. Keeping Calm
A relaxed driver accelerates smoothly, brakes gently, and changes lanes evenly. They are confident but not aggressive and exude a sense of calm behind the wheel. This composed driving style communicates control, stability, and an easy command of the vehicle.
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3. Pay Attention
A careful and attentive driver is always present and mindful. They are not distracted and pay attention to the driving environment. Drivers who are aware and alert follow traffic laws.
4. Safety First
A predictable and safe driver follows speed limits, keeps a safe following distance, and uses signals appropriately. Their consistent and reliable behavior minimizes surprises on the road, enhancing the sense of security for everyone around them. This approach fosters trust and comfort, demonstrating respect for both the rules and other drivers.
5. Take Care Of Your Car
A good car owner is one who maintains and cleans their car regularly. Not only does it keep the car running smoothly, but it also shows pride in their vehicle and responsibility as an owner. This routine habit can be a sign of reliability, being detail-oriented, and respect for others.
6. Make Smooth Turns
A smooth turner and lane changer uses light steering and isn't jerky in their movements. This shows control, poise, and confidence with the car. It is more pleasant to ride with, and a sign of an advanced driver.
7. Adaptability
A flexible driver is someone who will speed up or slow down as the conditions warrant. This may mean that their driving is different because of the weather, traffic, or the road itself. It shows that a person has a sense of responsibility and is aware of their surroundings.
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8. Parking Considerately
The courteous driver, when parking their car, parks it straight, gives adequate room to other cars, and helps the passengers in and out of the car when necessary. They know that considerate parking displays thoughtfulness and regard for others on the road. This is a simple courtesy that leaves a good impression on others.
9. Giving Thanks
The friendly driver is one who waves when thanking someone, using their headlights to wave or for courtesy in another state. A nice driver uses their blinkers and signals when merging.
10. Opening Doors
Drivers who open doors for others have classic romance in their driving styles. Being that considerate demonstrates thoughtfulness, respect, and sincere regard for passengers. Such a chivalrous gesture makes a lasting impression of charm and good manners.
Now that we’ve talked about some attractive driving habits, here are 10 that are super unattractive.
1. Reckless Driving
An aggressive or reckless driver tailgates, speeds, and weaves in and out of traffic, causing hazards for others. These actions can intimidate or frighten others and make them feel unsafe. Such driving behaviors may be perceived as arrogant, impulsive, and careless.
2. Being Distracted
A distracted driver is someone who texts, looks at their phone, eats, or fiddles with controls while driving. Distracted driving takes your attention off the road and puts you at greater risk of getting into an accident. Distracted driving behavior shows you are irresponsible, inattentive, careless, and unsafe.
3. Lack of Patience
An impatient driver honks constantly, runs red lights, and weaves in and out of traffic. They make driving stressful and unpleasant for passengers and other drivers. This can make the driver seem reckless, inconsiderate, and unpleasant to share the road with.
4. Lack of Consideration
A rude driver doesn't use turn signals, cuts off other drivers, and does not let them into the lane that they have been in. They also do not allow other drivers into lanes that they need to merge into. This behavior hinders traffic from flowing smoothly and causes a lot of stress.
5. Way Too Nervous
A timid or overly nervous driver drives too slowly, brakes hard, or freezes in situations where a calm and assured driver would take the appropriate action. It can cause impatience or anxiety in other road users and can lower their confidence in their own driving ability.
6. Messy Cars
The very sight of a car littered with trash, food wrappers, or bad smells is enough to leave a very bad first impression. Most passengers will notice the state of your car the moment they climb in, and it will most likely make them feel a little uncomfortable or on edge. This behavior unconsciously suggests to others that you don't care, or are disorganized and inattentive.
7. Ignoring Road Rules
A driver who has no regard for the rules of the road runs stop signs, tailgates, and weaves in and out of traffic. This makes the driver a hazard for themselves as well as others on the road. It also makes the driver seem reckless, careless, and untrustworthy.
8. Blocking Traffic
A driver who weaves or blocks traffic hesitates in turn lanes, rides in the center of two or more lanes, or won't allow others to merge. This aggressive behavior impedes the flow of traffic and angers other drivers. It is selfish and inconsiderate of other drivers.
9. Showing Off
A driver who is speeding excessively or "showing off" attempts to race, rev, or slam on the brakes to impress people. This endangers not only themselves but everyone else on the road. It also comes off as immature, reckless, and attention-seeking.
10. Honking
A driver who honks the horn at small delays, pedestrians, or other drivers going slowly can startle others and incite road rage. It shows they are easily irritated, impatient, and cannot control themselves.
